He’ll run out to pick it up or take you with him and recite your order by heart. It’s also keeping you in the loop so you can cue up the movie you’ve been waiting to watch together. He’ll hit the pharmacy for some tissues and cough meds and pick up chicken noodle soup when you have a bad head cold. He may have a funny story to share or he might simply want to see how work is going. In fact, you’re pretty sure he could run a sports camp of some type. Whether it’s a toasted whole wheat sesame bagel with scrambled eggs and cheese and freshly squeezed orange juice or just black coffee. And it reminds you that he realizes the best part of his night has yet to begin. He’ll grab you an Advil and a glass of water if you have a headache.I’ve been dating someone for a couple months now and, like a lot of people, he is experiencing financial difficulties.He just recently began sharing these financial problems with me and I know it’s the reason why he’s been asking me out less than when we first started dating.No matter how busy things get for him, he’ll never forget to set aside consistent alone time with you. He’s not one to be consistently late because he cares enough to be on time. There are no strange phone numbers popping up on his cell phone. He loves handing you a coin and watching you uncover the numbers on the card. You’re into birthdays and anniversaries, so he is happy to celebrate them with you.You’re a priority to him, so he’s not afraid to turn down plans with “the guys” in favor of some QT with his lady. He’s responsive to each and every one of your calls and texts. Not that you know this because you don’t even feel the need to cybersnoop. You’ll plan together what you’d do with the money if you should win. If he knows you’re into writing, he’ll get you a beautiful journal. For instance, if he sings you your favorite song, he’ll change the words to lyrics so they’re about that annoying co-worker you’ve been telling him about. He’ll be a homebody when you’d rather be at home with his hot body.The point I’m making is that whilst Latin guys tend to get physical within five minutes of making your acquaintance and shower you in hugs, kisses and compliments, Finns are quite the opposite.
However, I believe him to have a strong ‘male gene’ when it comes to who the provider should be. He’s been going on less dates with you and he’s been sharing his financial difficulties with you.After all, there are a lot of frozen lakes in winter in Finland.If you are a bit unstable on your feet, he will surely help you learn to skate better, which can be romantic as you will hold onto him for dear life making your way on the ice. This in turn means that they love running into icy lakes in winter after having had a sauna. And here’s the catch: they are often naked when they do it. He’s not sending this text because he thinks you’re paranoid, needy or insecure. He knows that giving you a head’s up prevents you from worrying about his safety or his level of sobriety. See you soon…” he lets you know that he hasn’t forgotten you, and that he’s ready to be with his favorite person again.